I found this article today on How to Spot an Emotional Manipulator. Pretty shocking huh? Who on earth would stay with someone like this?!
Me.
I checked. He does every one of these. And look what the advice is: leave!!
Ok, ok - I'm trying, I swear.
Infrequent postings from a 40-something unhappy wife. Trying to leave but not having much success so far. Must try harder.....
Thursday, 5 January 2012
Tuesday, 3 January 2012
Fake it till you make it.
I've tried to tell him; really, I have. I say it and He just 'reassures' me. He tells me don't worry, we're going to get through this, we owe it to ourselves, we're made for each other. Etc.... etc......
I get that He wants to 'make it work'. But what about what I want?
I want out.
He wants us to carry on until my 16yo has finished her GCSEs - in June. When I asked him how I'm supposed to do that, He told me to 'pretend'. "Fake it till you make it" He says.
I can't do that, can I? Thought not......
I get that He wants to 'make it work'. But what about what I want?
I want out.
He wants us to carry on until my 16yo has finished her GCSEs - in June. When I asked him how I'm supposed to do that, He told me to 'pretend'. "Fake it till you make it" He says.
I can't do that, can I? Thought not......
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