Thursday, 5 January 2012

8 signs and He has every one

I found this article today on How to Spot an Emotional Manipulator.  Pretty shocking huh? Who on earth would stay with someone like this?!


I checked.  He does every one of these.  And look what the advice is: leave!!

Ok, ok - I'm trying, I swear.

Tuesday, 3 January 2012

Fake it till you make it.

I've tried to tell him; really, I have.  I say it and He just 'reassures' me.  He tells me don't worry, we're going to get through this, we owe it to ourselves, we're made for each other.  Etc.... etc......
I get that He wants to 'make it work'.  But what about what I want?

I want out.

He wants us to carry on until my 16yo has finished her GCSEs - in June.  When I asked him how I'm supposed to do that, He told me to 'pretend'.  "Fake it till you make it" He says.

I can't do that, can I? Thought not......