Wouldn't you think that when we're incapacitated, it would make our husbands better appreciate all that we do when we're working at usual speed? After all, I watch Wife Swap - the husbands on that seem very grateful to have their wives back...... Now that's an idea - I could go on Wife Swap to expose him and his irrational behaviours. He may agree - he thinks he's being perfectly rational and merely reactive to my 'bad behaviour'. He says that a lot, by the way: "you're behaving very badly" - like I'm a child. When actually, he's the one behaving like a child.